my ex 3 weeks ago broke up with me the day we were supposed to move in together. we made a time at Ikea and he never showed up. He never apologized. I am really hurt.
Last updated on:2026-08-09T03:44:19+05:30
Why did he just disappear? my heartbreak story
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how have these three weeks been for you, especially after having your whole life rearranged around moving in together?
I am having heat pain... body aches and cry myself to sleep
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that is such a brutal way to be left. i’ve been there, waiting for someone who promised a future while they quietly disappeared, and the lack of an apology hurt almost as much as the breakup.
I am so sorry to hear this. It may never make sense, or at least make sense in a way that you get comfort from the explanation. You are doing your best now though. I see you.
Thank you so much for you words made me tear up.
I’m so sorry to hear about what happened to you. Deciding to move in together is a significant decision, and it’s heartbreaking to see an avoidant break up with you. What’s particularly frustrating is that they never fully express their feelings, and when it comes to relationships, they can become overwhelmed and withdraw. I hope you find the healing you need from this because I understand how difficult it is for someone you love to simply leave. I dated an avoidant for six months, and when I tried to communicate my needs and wants and wanted to move forward, he ghosted me. It’s been 21-22 days now, and it still hurts to move on, but I know it’s necessary.
Thank you so much. we got this!