2018, we got together. 2026 she’s with someone new and i’m still here living with the memories of her. i even have a tattoo on my arm that carries everything i felt about my loyalty to her and our love. i miss her. i am slowly getting better but it still hurts knowing someone you fought for so hard couldn’t fight for you the same way after more than four years together.
Last updated on:2026-08-11T01:15:11+05:30
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i know that feeling of fighting so hard for someone and realizing they didn't fight the same way for you.
Your tattoo is a sign that you are able to love deeply. A relationship takes two people working on it. Your next partner will appreciate your love.
you ever look at that tattoo and feel like you're grieving the person, or the life you thought you'd still have together?
You know what get up start creating. create anything literally let it be messed up but just live ur life for you
Took my a decade to get over my first love. I feel you. it does end I promise
i had years of memories tied to one person too, and even when i was getting better, some days still felt like i was carrying the whole relationship alone
You should be with someone who appreciates you and is willing to fight for the "us" in the relationship. Been there before a couple times. Sorry. If she made you feel unappreciated then maybe she was never the one to begin with?
I’m so sorry. I’m getting over a long-term relationship too, the longest of my life. You will find it isn’t linear. Last week I have five solid days of feeling fine, I couldn’t believe it, but then this weekend was ROUGH. All we can do is keep going, day by day, and believing we will eventually be ok and happy! Sending you strength.