Why am i still thinking about him after the breakup?

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Today my country suffered an earthquake, my city was one of the affected, and while I was running to find a safe place I could only think: "will he be okay?", I wanted to break contact and ask him, I ended up not doing it, then I realized that he was okay. But I'm too surprised by the fact that even though we don't talk anymore I think about it at a time like that.

Last updated on:2026-08-11T18:09:12+05:30

Comments (4)

Voleuse01
Voleuse01 2 wks ago

feeling guilty for still caring when i was trying so hard to move on. i didn't reach out either, and honestly, that helped me realize caring about someone doesn't mean i have to reopen the door.

GloomyPine
GloomyPine 2 wks ago

when you realized he was okay, did you feel more relieved that he was safe or more sad that you couldn't tell him you were scared?

callmemaybee
callmemaybee 2 wks ago

Hope ur safe... This happens...

NowuHaveIt1
NowuHaveIt1 2 wks ago

when something scary happened, my first thought was still my ex, even after we'd stopped talking. your brain doesn't just forget someone because contact ended.