Why did i dream about him after the breakup?

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idk it was nothing bad , more or less I felt warm and safe , i saw his face , he held me while I cryed and apologized over and over , but i know none of its real , cause I woke up, but dang that hurt

Last updated on:2026-08-13T21:04:12+05:30

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FluidPen66
FluidPen66 1 wk ago

i stopped wanting to sleep after dreams like that because waking up felt like losing them all over again.

lumpycelery
lumpycelery 2 wks ago

when you woke up, did you miss him more, or did it hurt more knowing that version of him only existed in the dream?

tired44327
tired44327 2 wks ago

maybe both cause he spent every night at my house , beside me , in my bed , and suddenly hes not here anymore

forbrokenO
forbrokenO 2 wks ago

i’ve had dreams like that too, where for a few minutes everything feels safe again. waking up and realizing you were holding someone who isn't there anymore hurts like hell.

kimmy
kimmy 2 wks ago

he made me feel safe around him then after that he made sure I hated him with every part of me

GlimmerFlick315

crying and that you apologised actually seems like you put all the pain and blame on just you.. we are the way we are, if we need to change to much - is it still me the person will love?

tired44327
tired44327 2 wks ago

idk, it just hurts , everyone is talking to him about when im being honest says he was the bad one , i know I need people to talk to , but when i see the anger and hate in there eyes for him thats when I start to lie and change the story cause I loved him and it hurts seeing people hate him

tired44327
tired44327 2 wks ago

@tired44327 I meant "everyone i am talking to him about"

mazarati
mazarati 2 wks ago

I think it's your subconscious showing you what you want not how it is and when you woke up it hurt because reality set in. You know yourself the relationship wasn't good but sadly the heart wants what it wants

EasyPeasy188
EasyPeasy188 2 wks ago

if your reason for leaving is not something that cannot be forgiven, i hope your dream will come true soon

tired44327
tired44327 2 wks ago

he wasn't good for me , for my heart , for my brain , my head knows hes not good for me , but my heart , my heart thinks maybe I wasn't good for him , maybe I should do what he wants me to do and maybe he would stay with me and be happy :/

EasyPeasy188
EasyPeasy188 2 wks ago

@tired44327 even if you do his wishes, you can't run a relationship with someone who isn't good for you. Please make yourself a priority. Remember that there is always a better man for you.