Was i just a rebound?

she was not long 4-6months out of a 10 year relationship/engagement. We spoke about it and all her reasons seemed valid to leave it. she did say they are close and he hasn’t accepted it and still wants it but it’s not for her. I come along we are messaging living in different cities. after a short period we talk lots and I snooped to see her exs profile… nothing maybe he deleted it ? things are going great she’s flying to see me or driving 6 hours and I’m doing the same. she tells me she told her ex she was dating someone and that’s why he was maybe calling more when she was with me. she showers me in positive compliments how lucky she is never been treated like this, gifts for me and my family. offers me a short notice (2days) to travel with her for work overseas. we both agree I can’t but accept the distance but plan future things and become offical. she was stressed about not having a partner there this time but she would be ok. internet is good we face time and we talk before her work starts. it starts. I get bread crumbs still called honey and how much she misses me and internet is bad. her socials are very active though. my dad somehow comes across the exs profile who is over there with her. I ask her about it she says no and then his account goes private. she then says she’s not with but will be soon and they have been talking. she’s unsure. he also blocks my mum (we have never met the guy in our lives or followed him?) could she be running his accounts and covering her tracks. also sends a long message how sick she feels how much she likes me and who I am and my family she’s unsure about everything.

Last updated on:2026-08-16T08:13:11+05:30