am on day 13 of no contact and this is the first time I chose real acceptance after trying multiple times to get back with him and the more I tried to fix Ys the more he looked for other reasons not to so I finally chose myself and decided to leave him alone .. I blocked him on social media but today I have an intensive urge to check out his TikTok but I pray I don’t
Last updated on:2026-08-17T03:27:11+05:30
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i'd stay blocked tonight. every time i checked my ex's socials, i bought myself another round of pain, so i started waiting out the urge instead of acting on it.
do you think you want to see his TikTok because you miss him, or because part of you is hoping to find something that tells you how he's doing?
I just wanted to know what’s happening in his life (stalking ) but ive realizes at the end of the day it’s not worth it
day 13 feeling so weird. i had moments where i was proud of myself for finally choosing me, then one stupid urge would make me want to check everything again. you’re doing better than you think.
Don't look. I'm saying this as someone who used to constantly check their social media and even their location. Looking at their profile can take you right back to the beginning of your healing process. Get up, look in the mirror, and think about everything you've been through over the past 13 days. You could lose all that progress just by looking at them.
I don't know what you think you'll find on their Tik Tok, but trust me, it doesn't matter. Your brain still wants to check because it hasn't fully accepted that the relationship is over. But the relationship isn't continuing. The only thing that's continuing is you.
From now on, if you're going to look at social media, look at your own account and your own pictures. Look at how much you've changed, how much you've healed, and how much you're starting to glow again. But don't turn around and look at them.
wow thanks for this