Why does it hurt so much after she moved on?

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this hurts so much. i know she found someone else pretty quickly after leaving me but somehow that doesn’t make it hurt any less.
we barely had contact anyway. i reached out once with a long letter and got ghosted. months later i asked her to confirm if she was seeing someone new. i guess part of me was still hoping for something even though i knew it wouldn’t change anything.
then she unfriended me and damn it still felt like my heart was ripped in two. i keep thinking about how fast everything changed. a year ago everything seemed fine. she was unhappy with me but never really told me. a week before she left she was even studying my language.
then suddenly she told me it wasn’t working she didn’t want to change things and she wanted to leave. i was completely blindsided.
i keep wishing i had done things differently. i miss her so much. thinking about her being with someone else hurts more than i know how to explain.
i honestly don’t know how to deal with this pain anymore. it just fucking sucks.

Last updated on:2026-08-17T20:52:11+05:30

Comments (4)

toddb7
toddb7 2 wks ago

thats hurt😢

MissP
MissP 2 wks ago

She's clearly affected and hurt with your break up, that is why she is on a rebound relationship which will 100% fail sooner or later

QuessyME
QuessyME 2 wks ago

Don’t chase my brother.. she will miss you more than you miss her if you don’t give her any more of your time.

beingMorta
beingMorta 2 wks ago

Damn, the ghosting hurts. I feel like my stbxw did the same thing. Said she wanted to learn the language my parents spoke then ghosted me in Jan… lived her life by blocking me and telling me she didn’t get my messages because of tech glitches, et