Hey guys. I just wanted to tell you, after my last post, that is okay to still love them, love the memories and cheerish them. But everhtime you do that, you need to remind yourself that it was beautiful, but not everything was.
I was together with a loving narcissist..it was so complicated, I didnt know what to belive. It took me long to belive the actions, not words.
I want to stay nc for 3 months, I still hope we change, but I know if I wait him its not gonna do anything, so Im trying to move on, hoping we will find our different versions, better ones.
So if you still care, you still want to get back together, you need to move on either way. Do you get it? You dont move on from the hate, not from selfish ways, for the better you. and if, somehow, you move on entirely..thats the best thing you could ve done.
Hope you understood that.
Something better comes for every one of us, guys. 💞
Last updated on:2026-08-18T17:25:09+05:30
Comments (7)
i letting myself care without turning that care into waiting. i stayed no contact and started choosing my own life again, even when a part of me still hoped.
thats how I feel too, Im just 2 weeks nc but I need to go trough 3, after 3 weeks we always got back together..
do you think you’re moving on because you truly want a life beyond him, or because you’re hoping becoming better will bring you two back together?
Either way I will move on, I have days when I want nothing to do anymore and days when I know we will come back at each other, even if I dont like it.
i still loved my ex while trying to rebuild my life, and honestly that was one of the hardest parts. loving the memories didn’t mean i had to go back.
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