I sent him one last, super emotional message on Tuesday at noon and then blocked him.
Except... after that, I kept blocking and unblocking him several times a day just to see... honestly, I don't even know what. Maybe just to see if the message status changed to "seen." When nothing happened, I at least reacted to his last text with an emoji.
But today I found out that when you block someone on IG, they can actually still message you. They're just writing to a brick wall and might not even realize it, because those messages never reach you. That completely threw me into a spiral... what if he had texted?
So I unblocked him. Just in case he wanna wrote something :(
Then he posted a story, and I had to look right away. I felt a wave of relief—he was just at work.
Now I feel like I'm losing my mind—blocking, unblocking, blocking... unblocking only to end up being the very first person to view his story :(
Last updated on:2026-08-21T05:37:12+05:30
Comments (6)
stuck in that block/unblock loop too, and honestly the only thing that helped me was making the block about protecting ME, not about whether he might reach out. every time i checked, i was basically reopening the wound myself.
listen, we are in the same boat!! your feel like you are loosing your mind. I blocked him for the 100th time on Tuesday. I'm just trying to remember that it doesnt matter about the future, the past how shown me that he CHOSE to lie, cheat and make me cry and thats not a nice person. hope you are ok sending loves ❤️
i can feel how badly you're hoping there's something waiting for you on the other side of that block. do you think you're checking because you want to know he's okay, or because part of you is still hoping he'll find a way to come back?
Both.. but honestly... mostly wanna know, if his previous words was real. Why He said that? Why he act like that. Why...?
For what am waiting. Yep, I know. For his lack of interest, minimum communication, his silence ...😥
Yeah, I'm analyzing his follower count, photos, when he was online. AAAAAA... it's a trap, I know :(
i used to unblock my ex just to check one tiny thing, then i'd spend the next hour reading into whatever i saw. that little hit of relief when you saw he was just at work makes so much sense :(