Him moving on like I meant nothing, is killing me slowly. Why was it so easy for him to move on. Using the same things we said in our relationship with another girl. Making me feel replaceable
Last updated on:2026-08-23T22:25:12+05:30
Why does it hurt so much seeing him move on?
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obsessing over how quickly my ex moved on, and it only made me hurt myself more. i had to stop looking for signs of how much he cared and start protecting myself from the things that kept reopening the wound.
you think it's seeing him with someone else that hurts most, or knowing he's giving her the same version of himself you thought was yours?
I think it's seeing with someone else. I didn't expect to see him with anyone.
seeing my ex use little phrases and inside jokes that belonged to us with someone else made me feel completely replaceable, like our whole relationship had been copied and pasted
I know the feeling, my ex left for a dude. she co-signed a loan for him, he then dumped her. she tried coming back and I said no. now she's in a relationship with her x husband before me. she originally left him for me. I walk through waves of sadness. it's been 7 months, 93 days no contact since divorce was final.
Congratulations on no contact. Proud of you. I'm so sorry that happened. She seems very indecisive and I believe you should be with someone who chooses you, always. ❤️
she replaced me after 1 week and it hurt me in a way i wish no one would ever experience. I'm sorry that happened to you, but just know you are better then how he treated you. that he will never change but you will grow
He will be repeating the same toxic cycles and will never be truly happy long term. Everyone else will always be the problem! Meanwhile you have the opportunity to learn and grow from this. Your future is bright even if it doesn't seem like it right now. Your worth is not measured by this man and never was.