my ex and i were together for about a year and a half and i genuinely thought she was the person i was going to build my future with. We had our problems but we always managed to work through them together so i never imagined things would end the way they did.
Things started falling apart after she saw that i had liked a bikini picture on Instagram. I honestly didn’t even realize i had liked it but because we’d had a similar issue in the past it completely broke her trust in me. What makes this even harder is that we went on a trip together right after that. We had an amazing time were intimate and she even wore the promise ring i had given her. On the last night she told me she wanted to try to work through everything with me. The next day after we got home she broke up with me.
It’s been about two months now. She says she needs space but we’ve still talked sent each other Snapchats joked around and even talked about meeting in person eventually to have a proper conversation. I’m naturally very anxious while she tends to pull away so giving her space has been really difficult for me. The more distant she became the more i tried to fix things and i can see now that i probably pushed her even further away by doing that.
Recently we had a phone call that turned into a huge argument and ended badly. After that i finally decided to stop reaching out and genuinely give her the space she’s asking for at least for a few weeks.
I still love her so much and i desperately want to rebuild our relationship. But i’m starting to understand that i can’t force someone to be ready or make them choose me again. I’m struggling with whether there’s still hope for us or whether loving her now means stepping back giving her the space she needs and accepting whatever happens next.
Last updated on:2026-08-27T14:34:11+05:30
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