She messaged me a couple days ago after a week of no contact because I was doing a joke with some friends. She added me on my joke Snapchat account and was like I’m sad for doing this joke even though it didn’t have anything to do with us . for some reason the conversation led to her bringing up our relationship and our mistakes. I didn’t reach out to her, she reached out to me. Is this a sign that she really cared. She also said to me that I’m not a bad person because I reposted it a lot but she also said she doesn’t nescerely like me. Idk if she really means that.
Last updated on:2026-08-29T20:54:49+05:30
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i feel like that “i don’t necessarily like you” part is really messing with you. do you think you’re holding onto her reaching out because you genuinely want to understand where she stands, or because you’re hoping it means she’ll come back?
honestly the feeling of someone you love very much hurts a lot but it just seems to quick to be saying stuff like that coz do feeling really change with a flip of a switch. A part of me is also thinking that she is saying that to me for her own sakes of getting over me but I don’t know and I don’t think I ever will
i’d try not to build hope around this one conversation.
reading way too much into every little message from an ex because i wanted it to mean they still cared. her reaching out probably means the relationship still affects her in some way, but i know how easy it is to turn that into “she’s coming back” when you’re hurting.
there is a change but if its not gonna happen ready for that too