I'm really struggling, i have just come out of an abusive relationship, but because I've become so dependent on this person, even how to feel went off how he was feeling. i know it's all still raw, but i don't even know where to begin right now. I'm so numb.
Last updated on:2026-08-30T01:39:12+05:30
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i know that numb feeling, and i had it too after my abusive relationship. i started with really small things, choosing what i wanted to eat, where i wanted to go, what music i wanted to hear, just little reminders that my life belonged to me again.
do you have someone safe you can stay close to right now, because i really hope you’re not having to get through the first days after leaving completely alone?
losing touch with my own feelings because everything depended on how my ex was acting that day. after i left, the silence felt so strange because i didn’t even know what i wanted anymore.
Just leave him. Trust the process. It will pass in time. It will pass over time. It's been almost two months since my relationship ended and believe me, I don't even miss it now. I just miss our memories, but I have trouble remembering it because it's been so long. Don't worry, just focus on yourself.