we've never really been into a real relationship it's more of a situationship or I call it hinting era that lasted for 2 years almost 3 throughout this time we fight and come back sometimes I'm wrong sometimes he is but all I know is that he's a narcissist he abused me mentally and emotionally he made me feel like his everything in days and nothing to him in others it was ups and downs I loved him and he seemed too but he would do whatever it takes to not give up to his feelings yet whenever we break up and have separate ways he comes back and makes a scene for attention like calling suddenly or reaching out for an old topic and pretending like he just saw the message I never initiated a chat neither during the relationship nor after, some more complicated stuff I would stay days talking about, in all of those comebacks I go back to point zero and back to my depression after months of growing out of that bubble I blocked him from every where so he can't reach out again yet he made other accounts and numbers to reach out he made fake accounts to stalk me with and chat he literally hacked my accounts he knew every chat with my bestie and how I complained about him he tried to separate me from her when I faced him with it he said “I’m just trying to advise you nothing more” yet he always hints in his stories and posts I never see them by my account so when he wants me to notice him he likes my posts then unlike them just so I can see what he posted about me I tried to keep him but he doesn’t wanna stay. I'm helpless it's been almost a month from the last scene he made I hope he never does that again.
Last updated on:2026-08-31T04:40:31+05:30
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My ex was a Grandiose Narcissist. Love bombed me in the very beginning. I didn't know what love bombing was so I liked it, lol. After 2 yrs. he became mean, would have scary outbursts and yell and make me cry. He put me high on a pedestal and suddenly dropped me and discarded me as if I was nothing. It shattered me but I shattered myself more by accepting him back and.... he discarded me a 2nd time. Now I just love myself. I no longer trust men.
blocking everywhere and still having him make new accounts and hack into your stuff is straight up terrifying and not okay
I know ppl suggest that I should report him but I don’t wanna hurt him + I’m afraid he might do something worse if I did although he’s not thaaaat bad, + cops here are lazy I have no proof they’ll just ask me to sign a report and then do nothing abt it!
what made you decide to finally block him on everything after all those years of going back, was there a specific last straw that pushed it?
I got too fed up of it, plus guess what he asked me to block him and live my life yet he came back again so I just lied to him that I was getting engaged and then blocked just to make sure he never comes back but after blocking him he called me with a different number and that’s how he always pushes me back to zero. I blocked him multiple times but this time I didn’t I just walked away silently
i went through almost the exact same thing with a guy who kept cycling me for years in that situationship limbo, making me feel like everything then nothing, and the way he’d force his way back in after i tried to leave just dragged me under every time.
omg we’re going through the same situation I’m sorry to know that I’m so tired I’m a person who prioritizes themselves and their dignity I’m kind of a tough love and he was too I got queues of men grooving for my attention and he had his queue of girls too but we somehow chose each other maybe cuz I didn’t give him the attention all the girls gave him, but I still can’t move on I still want him to come back despite all the harm he caused me.