absolutely heart broken married 7 years and he left and is being so nasty and cold sending me mesaages he is going to move on immediately and I need to do the same !! I can’t even breath never mind absorb all this mess - ive blocked him im on day 2 of blocking ! does it work I love him I want my marriage back I’m a mess with this
Last updated on:2026-09-07T13:27:31+05:30
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well ive made a fool of my self . he rang today I answered we arranged to meet after work I go sit for an hour and he doesn’t come them sends me again vile messages - I then go to the nother in-laws where he is to ask wtf he them screams at me trying to make me out to his mother I’m the one in wrong ! ive came home crying my eyes out and now and be a million awful mesaages off him
who is this man
today he tries to come back what shall I do
i remember blocking my ex and checking my phone every five minutes anyway.
He sounds like a toxic person. He's done you a favor. You deserve better.
when he says he’s going to move on immediately, do you think part of you is still hoping he’ll come back once the anger settles?
yea. x x I don’t think we need to be apart I’m in shock I suppose I can’t stand these nasty messages he sent so ive had to block
he throw 7years away like nothing this toxic thing...and u saying u missed him trust me u don't miss him u just miss the old version of him the won't come back
thank you I feel so shocked thos man who sending me this shit ain’t the man I’ve been married too I can’t grasp it my heart is broke I’m a mental mess atm
is he a narcissist or avoidant? because normal person wouldn’t change overnight 😭 I am so sorry you have to experience this pain. But, rather than decoding him, keep checking how you feel everyday
o don’t know x. I have never thought of this before
after years together, having someone turn cold overnight feels like losing the person and the life you thought you had at the same time. day 2 is SO raw.
I feel I can’t catch my breath x x I’m crying non stop ive blocked him but he staying his mothers doen the road so eventually we will pass each other
his words cut like a knife x.
I promise you it will get better, and time is truly the greatest healer 🩷 I’m so sorry you are going through this but your heart does not deserve someone so nasty, even if they were a good person at one point. please look at what you can do to focus on yourself and do things to keep your mind busy! it’s hard but you have got this
thank you xxx I desperately trying to hold it together
my family hate him before all this so I haven’t managed to tell them what going on as I don’t want them hate him even more wtf I feel very alone in this struggle