you know the full relationship he kept telling me " I'm not good enough for you"
"you can find someone better"
"you deserve someone better "
he was right I can find someone better and I will find someone better.
And for you reading this you can too . I believe that you can get through this no matter how hard it is I believe in you.
Last updated on:2026-09-05T01:08:11+05:30
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i spent so long trying to prove to my ex that he was enough, only to realize i was the one settling for way less than i needed. now i look back and think, damn, i really was capable of so much more.
i love that you ended this by reminding other people they can get through it too. when you say you’ll find someone better, do you feel excited about that now, or does part of you still miss what you had?
my ex used to tell me i deserved better too, and hearing it over and over made me angry because deep down i knew he was right. it took me a while to believe i could actually choose better for myself.
i said this to him too but i was just doing it to play coy. right now it will sound selfish but i dont want him to find someone any better i want him just for me i will be the best version of myself for him for our relationship because i can learn from my mistakes you know
awh yeah I get it honestly and it's not that selfish ig you love them and like true love can just go away that easyey, and yk atlest you know you truly love them ig idk
@Lils i can change for him if true love leads me
@CozySoul437 that's how much I loved my ex , like you will do anything I told everyone I whould change into someone I don't recognise in the mirror anymore aslong as I had him I didn't care but he got a new gf the exact opposite of me 4 days after the break up so now I'm focusing on the negatives of the relationship to try convince myself that the relationship wasn't that good and I'm trying to forget all the really good memories and yeah ik it's hard and I'm still trying because deep down he's still my sweet caring baby to me but he's not mine anymore he chose someone else over me and like, some people say the last act of love you could give someone is you got to respect there dision so my last act of love to him is to let him go peacefully. idk if that makes sense or not and idk if it will help you in anyway.
@Lils OH MY GOD THE LAST PART DEVASTATED ME HE IS MY LITTLE BABY TOO I MISSED HIM SO MUCH BUT FOR THE SAKE OF US I HAVE TO MOVE ON LIKE YOU I GUESS