So I'm 17 and my ex-gf is 18 we broke up June 8th 2026 we were together for just over 7 months she claimed to be lesbian for about 5 or 6 years and less than 2 months later she moves onto a much older guy (23) either late July or early-mid August and I don't get what she sees in him bc not to be rude but no 23 year old is actually attracted to a fresh 18 yr old it's just creepy... I just feel betrayed that she claimed to be a lesbian and was a man-hater our entire relationship and then moves on so fast from me the reason of our breakup was yes I wasnt the nicest but I was actively getting better FOR her and my ex-bsf (online) who's friends with her made up a lie about me to my ex saying that I cheated on her with one of my friends who passed away in mid/late April this year back in the start of April which was when me and her first started having problems but that never happened, I gave all the proof I could including screenshots, allowing her into my accounts etc but she still believed my ex-bsf over me i kept begging her to just prove ive changed my ways (bc I was a bit mean to her before) so I tried but then I fell back into my old ways and was mean again so we both agreed to step away from eachother and she said she'd come back when there was change and I really did change a lot (for the better) I showed the proof but instead of accepting that i was much better and had changed more for her she decided to move onto the older guy (online) and block me, she didnt properly communicate much with me during the last few months of our relationship the only time I kind of felt connection during the last months was when we were together in real life but then with her new bf she is giving him all the attention that I had wanted but instead she was like cold with me. I feel lost I feel like I will never find love again I hate how desperate I am for love even though truthfully I am desperate for it I miss being able to talk to someone everyday I miss being able to hug and kiss someone it was my first real life relationship (I had 2 online back in 2023 & 2024 but i dont necessarily want to count them...) and I just feel like it's all over i feel like i wont find a woman who truly loves me again...
Last updated on:2026-09-05T17:44:38+05:30
Comments (4)
i can hear how much you miss having someone there every day. do you think you miss your ex specifically, or are you missing the closeness, affection, and feeling of being loved?
i think I miss it all, I dont miss who she is now but I miss how she used to be but I do miss the closeness affection and the feeling of being loved as well I miss it all and not having it feels strange
my first real relationship ended and i genuinely thought that was it for me, especially seeing my ex give someone else the attention i begged for. it took me a while to realize missing love and missing that person were two different things
i can truly understand how you feeling right now i lost my first proper relationship 12 days ago. he had everything i could look for in a lover. i did change for better due to the lessons i have learned from my mistakes our relationships from early months. i really did change for him. but he didnt believe me and want to break up with me anyway. and i feel miserable i get you he was my first love and i couldnt find anybody else to love. because i felt that connection with him and i will never be able to forget him. so yeah i totally get you you are not alone in this we will heal together i am always here to help and support you