ex reached out this morning and asked me if i wanted my ticket back for a concert, and she asked if i wanted her to give me my clothes back. just asked a bunch of random questions, like if i wanted her ticket to go with someone else, and all sorts of random little auxiliary questions about logistics of selling the tickets.
maybe she’d doing it yo be nice, but i hate all the questions she’s making me choose on. shoulda just sent me my ticket and dropped off my clothes in my driveway, she knows where i live!
not sure if im reading too much into this
Last updated on:2026-09-09T20:41:12+05:30
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i'd probably keep it as practical as you can, even if she’s being extra chatty. when i was in this spot, assuming there was a hidden meaning behind every question only made me more attached to the interaction.
i get why you're wondering about it, though. do you feel like her questions actually sound like she wants a reason to keep talking, or are they mostly just making the logistics more complicated?
my ex once turned a simple exchange of stuff into a whole conversation, and i spent hours wondering if every little question meant something more. that uncertainty can mess with your head so badly.
sounds like breadcrumbing to me!
should i just ignore her? not sure how to counter breadcrumbing 💀