Should i go back to someone who hurts me?

Would you go back to someone who has hurt you many times but whom you love deeply if you saw them wherever you went and believed they valued you?

Last updated on:2026-09-11T21:26:15+05:30

Comments (10)

Elena
Elena a mth ago

I did. I gave it the 2nd chance with my open heart and soul, now the pain is even heavier than before.

CozySoul437
CozySoul437 a mth ago

but what if they never did the same mistakes again

Elena
Elena a mth ago

@CozySoul437 When someone shows you who they are - believe them the fist time 💔

Jumpy01
Jumpy01 a mth ago

i think i would’ve gone back too, especially if they were showing me they valued me. but i’ve learned that feeling loved in the moment isn’t enough for me anymore, i need their actions to stay different when things get hard.

foelay
foelay a mth ago

i’d struggle so much with this because seeing them everywhere would keep reopening that door. do you feel like they’ve actually changed, or does seeing them just make you remember how much you still love them?

CozySoul437
CozySoul437 a mth ago

i think she changed but i am blinded by the mistakes she made in the past but she loves me so much

twichyeye
twichyeye a mth ago

loving someone so deeply that every time i saw them, a part of me wanted to believe this time would be different. when someone has hurt you again and again, love can make you remember their good moments louder than the bad ones.

nm0586
nm0586 a mth ago

NO

CozySoul437
CozySoul437 a mth ago

but you will realize they valued you so much and cant move on from you because they still love you so much.

nm0586
nm0586 a mth ago

@CozySoul437 Sometimes that's not enough since they find multiple ways to hurt you it's not