my ex is totally my type. our mindsets are pretty same. his look is completely my type. he is so cute. i love nerdy things and he is a total nerd. he is the type of guy you would never get bored of. i have never wanted gifts but he always pampered me with them. our future goals were quite same. he is perfect. i think he can find someone better than me. but me? i dont want to find someone better i want him but what if one day i realize i should move on and try with someone new and i couldnt find someone as perfect as him. he is the defination of perfection. i really miss him.
Last updated on:2026-09-12T19:45:43+05:30
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in the same situation. thinking of you 💕
being stuck on the thought that nobody could ever compare, and honestly, i stopped trying to compare people at all. i just let myself miss her without turning that feeling into a prediction about my whole future.
what if i cant someone
you miss him as he is right now, or are you missing the version of the future you thought you’d have with him?
both
i’ve had an ex who felt like he was made for me, same weird interests, same little things that made me laugh, and losing that person made me genuinely scared i’d never find that kind of connection again
did you find that connection again?
I feel the same way and Im kind of going through the same thing right now. To me, he was everything I ever wanted and needed. I miss him deeply. Im trying to give him time and space while I heal and love myself. I may not have the right words to say to you right now, but know that you're not alone. We will get through this 💛
oh my god thank you so muchh i will try to help you and support you as long as you are here. huge hugs 💗🫶🏻
its never about better. its about learning
honey there's always a better person.....you just gotta believe that coz thats the truth of the matter
but in this generation i think i would never be able to find someone like or better than him. especially when i only want him