I am so in love. didn't see it coming. he wants no contact. I called him over and over to understand. I was blocked on all platforms. He is my bestfriend. He slept over at my place 3 days in a row last week, came on my family vacation, went to my family reunion on the weekend. Then hits me with, "I've been thinking about this for awhile." I don't know when it became fake.
Last updated on:2026-09-14T07:55:11+05:30
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wanting answers so badly that i kept reaching out too, because my brain couldn’t accept how someone could be beside me one minute and gone the next. eventually i had to stop chasing the explanation because every unanswered call just hurt me more.
i keep thinking about that “i’ve been thinking about this for awhile” part... how are you supposed to make sense of the relationship feeling real to you just days before he ended it?
i’ve had a breakup like this where everything felt completely normal right before it happened, and that sudden switch absolutely wrecked me. seeing them one day as your person and then being blocked everywhere the next is such a brutal kind of shock.
I’m really sorry to hear that what a jerk you deserve so much better