i miss him and i cant even focus on anything at this point. sometimes in the streets i see some girls and think maybe he would like her or when i doomscroll i saw a girl looking cool and thinking "oh he might like her" or "what if they become lovers". immediate shock and heart attack. i dont know why i feel this way and i know its so wrong but i cant help it. he dated too many girls in the past i mean if we count the talking stages and flirts the number will raise to 20-25. and i am not even counting the ask outs he had rejected. he said it himself. even in our relationship some girls ask him out (one of them is his friend) and he blocked them immediately. he always called himself "a manwhore". i am going crazy. what if someone likes him and he give it a chance and he remembers me as a regret and disgust. i am literally going crazy because he has so many aspirants. what if he forgets me
Last updated on:2026-09-15T22:12:52+05:30
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i used to check social media whenever that panic hit, and honestly it only fed it.
honestly i dont check his socials but everytime i saw a random girl the urge comes
i feel how terrified you are of being forgotten, but do you miss him himself right now, or are you mostly terrified that someone else will become the person you wanted to be for him?
i really dont know i miss him so much
i know this spiral so well. after my breakup i’d see some random girl and instantly imagine my ex choosing her, loving her, forgetting me, and my brain would turn one harmless moment into a whole relationship.
OH DID YOU KNOW IT? THANK GOD I THOUGHT I AM ALONE IN THIS SITUATION AND I WAS GOING CRAZY
i totally understand how you feel, mine was also kinda fooling around with girls before me and it was the most painful thing to imagine, that he will get back to his old ways after the break up. I think it just takes time to stop worrying about that, you need to feel everything before you let yourself move on. Just take it step by step and try to focus on things that will keep your mind busy. If he truly loved you, he won’t forget, if he will, that at least you know you dodged a bullet - my mom told me that and i think she’s so right. You will eventually be happy again and able to live without thinking about it <3
oh my god thank you so much girl thats what i needed to hear. in the relationship it was never a problem because at the end of the day i was the one who is with him but right now he is not mine and it hurts to imagine him with someone else. love youu thank youu huge hugs from me 💗🫶🏻