Why can't i move on after a 6-year relationship?

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After a single long-term relationship of six years I'm finding it surprisingly hard to get anyone to commit. To make matters worse my last two situationships ended the exact same way: both guys ghosted me and got back together with their exes.
Having this happen once is bad luck but twice in a row is insane. What is happening? Am I somehow driving men back to their exes or is this just typical bad behavior on their part?

Last updated on:2026-09-17T02:27:15+05:30

Comments (3)

luca225989
luca225989 4 wks ago

its just luck, sometimes karma doesnt come right away just hold out for it

enlivening
enlivening a mth ago

Are you attracted to emotionally unavailable men?

NoChip03
NoChip03 a mth ago

Nah, men are definitely stupid. I left flowers on my exs doorstep just because I moved back to town. The day after a snow storm.