i have to reset my no contact i guess. he contacted me today, saying things like happy monthsary and he missed me but where was he when i missed him? he just blocked me. then afterwards, he said he was just checking up on me nothing more. and so i got tired of being confused, i finally said my goodbye then blocked him for good.
im just tired of being so confuse whether what's the point of him checking up on me. im just tired of reading between the lines, of putting meaning on everything, it's just tiring really.
Last updated on:2026-09-18T13:10:12+05:30
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i know you said you’re tired of being confused, but do you think part of you is still hoping his checking in means he wants to come back?
same that whole “i miss you” followed by blocking and then pretending it meant nothing is exhausting. i remember how badly i wanted every little message from my ex to mean something, and i ended up hurting myself trying to read between every line.
thats great. he knows exactly what hes doing. hes not just "checking up on you" hes planting himself in your mind. he knows what hes doing he wants to keep you attached. cut it off
I also got tired of being confused. Ever since I reset my no contact for the last time, I've found my peace. As much as I miss him, not going through that confusion means im no longer spiralling and can move through life with grace. Just without him
When you broke up, was there a possibility that you would get back together again?