Why i forgave him after our breakup

I wrote him I forgive him for hurting me and let it go.

Last updated on:2026-09-22T00:48:27+05:30

Comments (7)

Cultural1
Cultural1 4 wks ago

i’ve forgiven an ex and still kept my distance after. forgiveness gave me some peace, but i learned i didn’t have to reopen the relationship just because i had let go of the anger.

Dimension2
Dimension2 4 wks ago

when you told him you forgive him, did you feel lighter afterward, or did it make you miss him even more?

Brokenheartedgirl

yes feel so much better he hurt me so much

zamlicioux
zamlicioux 4 wks ago

let it go....

OkCup20
OkCup20 4 wks ago

i’ve broken no contact too, and i remember that rush of wanting to say one last thing because i needed the hurt to feel finished. sometimes sending that message feels like closing a door, even when you’re still standing in the doorway.

Brokenheartedgirl

I needed it so bad

ZappyWave103
ZappyWave103 4 wks ago

if that’s something you needed to do, then it’s completely okay 🤍 everybody heals differently and i believe, that saying something just for you to feel better is worth it.