hey I'm new here. My boyfriend of 2.5 years told me a month prior that he is tired of any human communication and he is not sure whether he wants to continue this relationship or not because of all the pressure and problems he had in his personal life.He acted cold and distance and I missed the clues. when I tried to talk he said he doesn't want to talk about anything relationship related. He wouldn't break up but would say things to hurt me eventually I decided to go. It really hurts he was my first. I still sometimes think he might come back.
Last updated on:2026-09-24T03:54:11+05:30
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i kept hoping my ex would come back because there was never a clean ending, but i eventually had to stop letting that hope decide my days. i had to accept that his distance and the hurtful things he said were answers too, even when he never actually said “we’re done.”
when you picture him coming back, do you miss who he was with you, or are you hoping he’ll finally become the person you needed him to be?
before what happened between us he was such a muture type of guy so I think him before and him being the person I need are kinda the same.
i’ve been through that slow breakup where the other person had already started pulling away while i was still trying to understand what was happening. mine was my first real love too, and the waiting for them to suddenly come back hurt almost as much as the breakup itself.
maybe he will. maybe he wont. either way you shouldnt let it define how you feel. life is not just love or whatever. and love sometimes is letting someone go. if i were you id try out some hobby. try to get my mind off of it. or think about it. analyse how you feel.