I genuinely have never felt this strongly for a man before. He is everything I've been looking for, a Godly man, A MAN, caring, responsible, loving, committed, etc. I had finally gotten to a point where everything didnt remind me of him, just small things like the color orange, corvette's, fancy coffee places, etc and 4 days ago he liked my Instagram post. I dont know what to do, I'm trying my best to trust God's timing but its so hard!!What do yall think?
Last updated on:2026-09-25T03:51:12+05:30
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where a tiny thing like a like on instagram suddenly makes all those feelings rush back in. i remember thinking one little sign had to mean something, and damn, it made the waiting so much harder.
i’d try not to build a whole story around the like, even though i know how badly your heart wants to. when i was in that place, i stopped checking for signs and let his actual actions tell me what was real, because otherwise every little thing kept pulling me back in.
after a month of no contact, do you feel like you want him to reach out, or are you hoping that like was his way of telling you he still wants a door open?
I have made a rule for myself that if we break no contact it will have to be him that breaks it, not me. I just have a hard time with looking at his socials and our text messages.
I feel you. It’s always the hardest when you finally start feeling better and then BAM, a notification pops up and sets you back. A single 'like' is definitely not enough. You’ve been through so much over this past month, and you deserve real effort and words, not just a tap on a screen. You described him as a manly, committed man, so remember that if he truly wants you back, a like isn't how a real man goes about it. Stay strong!
yeah I think its the same but all I can say is I feel you...just when you somewhat forget abt him he has to post or like or literally found anything and your back to remembering him again. Just know your stronger and better and by God's grace you will find you perfect Godly man
Thank you, that's really helpful it's just hard to trust God's timing when I feel like he brought such a great man into my life.