Despite planning to move in together and get married next year my partner’s shady behavior drove me to check his phone last month revealing clear evidence of deceit. He receives hidden FaceTime calls from unsaved numbers and maintains inappropriate relationships—including one with a 40-something therapist who seduced him during past sessions whom I intend to report to her licensing board. Whenever I bring up his suspicious behavior he smoothly lies claims I lack trust and uses our future marriage plans to cover his tracks.
I want to end the relationship but I am trapped until I can handle a serious safety issue. I suspect he has been sharing nude photos of me with his friends after seeing a crude comment on his social media. He pressured me into taking a photo once has taken secret pictures of me in the past and previously showed me nudes of his exes.
Because I come from a strict Afghan family the release of these photos would be catastrophic for my life. His phone is constantly guarded but I need to delete those images before breaking up so he cannot use them against me. I am heartbroken scared and in a deeply vulnerable state. How can I safely access his phone destroy any pictures of myself and protect my future before walking away for good?
Last updated on:2026-09-30T01:35:11+05:30
Comments (4)
Do you know where he saved the photo? And what brand phone does he have?
Gather your evidence and tie up your ends and leave. Is he a heavy sleeper? Can you delete your nudes off his phone while he sleeps? Please do not move in with this guy, this just feels bad all around.
He belongs in jail. Get him amd anyone else who has been engaging in thia type of behavior.
Sorry all of this is happening and good luck with your next steps. I think you should definitely report that therapist