Why i realized there's nothing wrong with me after my breakup

Being with my ex made me feel like I was not pretty enough to the standard of women he used to date. Today I decided to dress up nicely wear my favorite perfume and go out. I got so many compliments and that really made me feel content and helped me understand that just because he didn’t see me doesn’t mean other people don’t .

Last updated on:2026-10-01T17:53:12+05:30

Comments (4)

perkyme
perkyme 2 wks ago

honestly, wearing something i loved, putting on perfume and going out just because i felt like it helped me remember i still existed outside of that relationship.

redsd12
redsd12 2 wks ago

do you think you’re starting to see yourself a little differently now too?

MitchBaT93
MitchBaT93 2 wks ago

comparing myself to the women my ex used to date and slowly believing i was somehow less because of it. getting dressed up and feeling good in my own skin again hit me harder than i expected

jewel66
jewel66 2 wks ago

I love this for you! ❤️ Sometimes being with the wrong person can make us question things about ourselves that we never doubted before. I'm glad you got to feel beautiful and appreciated again. His inability to make you feel seen doesn't define your beauty or your worth. Keep doing things that make you feel good about yourself, because you deserve to feel beautiful without needing anyone's validation.