Why letting go hurts so much

I am hurting because, I have to let go, he already chose his own path. he has moved on. already. I'm hurting. I hate this for myself.

Last updated on:2026-10-03T13:43:11+05:30

Comments (7)

Grapefruit1
Grapefruit1 2 wks ago

that exact moment i realized my ex had already chosen his path without me and moved on, and feeling that sharp anger at myself for still being stuck in the wreckage ruined me for weeks. it is so unfair, but please go easy on yourself for hurting right now.

Abikdig
Abikdig 2 wks ago

when the pain felt like too much to carry was just letting myself cry without fighting it or feeling ashamed. you don't have to force yourself to be strong or over it today, you just have to get through tonight one hour at a time.

bpounder
bpounder 2 wks ago

did something specific happen today that made his choice feel so final all of a sudden?

aaxreiv
aaxreiv 2 wks ago

i know how you feel, but don't hate yourself. it will be hard to move on, but if he already did then he probably did not love you as much as you did, even I'm suffering from the same thing as you, but let's not hate ourselves no matter how bad it gets okay? you're a wonderful person, im sure of it!

ForeverBlessed513

I wish I didnt love so hard.

JoyGiver466
JoyGiver466 2 wks ago

I feel like we share the same sentiment, he has moved on and I here thinking how could it have been easy for you? clearly our feelings weren’t the same. Bu there’s nothing wrong with loving hard someday one person will appreciate the way you love

Cordywalker
Cordywalker 2 wks ago

I’m in the same situation, it’s tough loving someone that deeply and them not feeling the same and watching them move on so quickly.