I fell asleep for a min and woke up to remembering that he left. it hurts bad. how could he just decide that he doesn’t want me in his life anymore and that’s it he’s gone. it’s been one and half he is very firm on his decission. I wonder if he ever loved me or else how could some one walkout on the person they love?
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that waking up part is the absolute WORST, when your brain gives you ten seconds of peace before the reality hits your chest like a brick.
when you stop trying to figure out his cold logic and look at how he's actually treating you right now, it gets a tiny bit easier to stop begging for his breadcrumbs.
I know what you say but it’s really confusing or may be I am giving him a bod coz of his autism
I am rereading your words helping me get stronger mentally though they are bit direct
I really needed to hear a man’s perspective on this
did something specific happen right before he made his decision, or did he just pull the rug out of nowhere?
I asked him how he feels about me if he feels committed to me. Forst time he answered he is still figuring things out then he said he was just annoyed and gave me that answer , few weeks later we were again at the same point he just said YES after circling around for sometime I wasn’t satisfied with his answer and pushed for more and I lost it and blew up. he said he thinks instead of understanding the insults are getting personal there’s a deeper issue of incompatibility we should breakup. while giving closure he said all the right things which he claimed that he didn’t understand what I wanted becoz of his autism but said that he felt committed few months but failed to express that in right time that kept snxious all through and that we should learn from this and treat the loved ones in our life better going forward.
it feels like it takes a certain level of cruelty or lack of conscience to make such choices
I know everyone is free to choose what they want but discarding someone they tagged along for months or years giving them hope and then coldly cutting them off their life never even looking back what damage they have done it’s inhuman
I tot I was choosing wisely this time but damn again I was fooled.
he said he never had a long term relationship that the longest only lasted for 3 months and he was always the one being dumped in every relationship he had so far ( I was happy inside that he knew the pain of being dumped and that he wouldn’t ever do that to me ) and I helped him break his record 😂
My stomach hurts. Why me😭
He was so sweet and gentle never said a hurting word or never lost his temper with me. Tot this was meant to be tot all the struggles I had all my life were leading me to a genuine kind human that finally I met my happily ever after😂only for him to sweetly to say I don’t think we are compatible I think we should breakup you are the best person I ever met in my life have a good life bye
This feels so relatable 😩. Mine is also very firm in his decisions. You really start wondering if they ever loved you 😪. He was just like “I’m sorry but we can’t pursue this relationship” and I was like man, what are you saying? 😭 How can someone who once loved you just walk away and be so firm about it? I ask myself that question as well.
I am sorry I know how it feels to be the only one still left standing there in shock and everything starts flooding down all the days we spent together the sweet things they did as if they really wanted this relationship and trying their best to keep it.its like what! did I imagine everything or were they just lying and pretending coz it was all new and they were just having fun
@GloopDot154 Exactly 😭. That is the part that hurts the most , you are left questioning whether everything you experienced together was real. You remember all the love, the effort and the moments that made you believe they genuinely wanted the relationship and then suddenly they are gone. It’s such a painful feeling because you are left trying to make sense of something that doesn’t make sense.