I don’t know what to do and my ex is posting stuff abt me making fun of me for crying and ask her to sit farther away at a different table at lunch I’m 14 I loved this girl and she’s being toxic non of my friends will call me I can’t talk to anyone. anyone just leave something for me to read it makes my day and really helps thx
Last updated on:2026-10-05T20:40:12+05:30
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that age and feeling like one person could suddenly make school feel awful every single day. seeing someone i loved make fun of me for caring hurt like hell, especially when i felt like i had nobody to sit with.
i’d tell myself her posts were about HER choices, not proof that there was something wrong with me. i also told one adult i trusted what was happening, even though i was scared it would make everything worse, and i’m really glad i did.
i’m really sorry you’re having to sit with this by yourself. is there even one teacher, parent, counselor, coach, or other adult at school you feel a tiny bit safe talking to?
Heartbreaks at this young of an age hurt more. Its a newer experience and navigating it sucks. With time, it'll get easier. For now, focus on what you can do for yourself. You can control who to sit next to at lunch, you can make new friends, you can invest in yourself. Blossom 🌸 you got this!! (P.S. Crying doesnt make you weak. It makes you human. Her toxicity isnt a reflection of you, but of her. The people that truly matter in your life will notice that). Sending peace, love, and care! ✨️🔮🙌
I’m so sorry you are going through this 🥺. Please don’t let the way she is treating you make you feel ashamed for crying or for loving her. Your feelings were real and crying doesn’t make you weak. ❤️🩹 You deserve to be treated with kindness and respect even after a relationship ends. Please keep your distance from her for now and talk to someone you trust at school or at home if this continues. You don’t have to go through this alone. I’m rooting for you and I promise this pain won’t always feel this heavy. 🫂❤️