Anyone else think that their relationship ended as a result of circumstance?
My ex and I were a dual military couple. He is deployed in a very harsh area. I am not.
He dumped me mid-deployment.
Anyone else here that has been dumped by their military person? Did they try to re-enter your life after deployment?
Last updated on:2026-10-07T03:02:01+05:30
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he give you any real explanation when he did it, or was it just a quick message out of nowhere
quick message with brief explanation. He said he wanted to breakup because he felt disconnected and like we could not achieve balance. He said we tried but he felt it was not something we can attain.
stop waiting for him to come back was realizing that even under extreme stress, someone who wants to be with you finds a way to hold on. you deserve someone who chooses you during the hardest circumstances, not just when life is easy and convenient.
my ex broke up with me during his first year of medical residency when he was working 80 hour weeks, and he blamed the stress and the distance for losing feelings, which left me obsessing over whether it was actually us or just the timing. it hurts so much more when you feel like a war zone or a crazy schedule stole the best relationship you ever had.