Why i had to restart no contact after reaching out

I had to restart no contact. I hate I allowed myself to fall & reach out. I keep crying & wanting to hear his voice 😢 😭 😪 😞 😔 😫

Last updated on:2026-10-08T08:02:00+05:30

Comments (7)

BlazeFox298
BlazeFox298 1 wk ago

don’t feel bad I’ve blown up his phone like 30 times. I’m anxious attachment style :( be kind to yourself. I feel the same I miss him so much but we can only take it day by day

TrueSight
TrueSight 1 wk ago

I broke my no contact streak twice in the first month and the shame afterward hurt almost as much as the breakup itself. please be kind to yourself right now because missing his voice is completely natural when your whole routine used to revolve around him

BleedSparta
BleedSparta 1 wk ago

whenever that urge hit, i made myself wait twenty minutes first, and usually the worst of the wave passed.

Kat2goated
Kat2goated 1 wk ago

stay strong girl you got this

Hopeful02
Hopeful02 1 wk ago

was there a specific trigger or moment today that made you reach out to him?

TwinkUp168
TwinkUp168 1 wk ago

it’s okay baby, don’t be too hard on yourself 😔 it happens but don’t allow it to happen again please when the urge comes back just switch off your phone, cry and try to distract yourself

ForeverBlessed513

I just want to make it through this day