i really can’t, i wish my family was less strict, i wish my family didn’t sacrifice anything for me so i could marry man of my dreams. He’s not good, im not good.We both love eachother soo much but seperated due to my dad’s condition.Im just 22 and he’s too. we still have a lot of time but should i let my first and only love go or fight for it..i dont think i can never love anyone like him..now i lost everything he was my routine i lost him, i lost all my friends, lost all his friends, falling back academically, just rotting in a room all day..basically i have none
Last updated on:2026-10-09T20:18:11+05:30
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oh sweetheart, this hurts to read. i remember losing my first love and feeling like my whole future disappeared with him, especially when everyone else seemed to have a say in our relationship except us
i was so desperate to save my relationship that i forgot how much of ME was disappearing too. if you choose to fight, i hope it’s a fight you both can face together, with a real plan, not one where you have to sacrifice your family, your studies, and yourself to prove your love.
can i ask you something? if your dad’s condition and your family’s pressure weren’t in the way, would you feel safe and happy building a life with this man, or are there other reasons you feel he isn’t good for you?
i would totally be happy