we've been in no contact for about 3 days now, it makes it all worse when one of my tiktok memories reminded me that we had been friends for 6 years now. she sent a message to me however I haven't read it yet. it's starting to kill me a little bit to try to read what she sent me. it could be nothing, could be something. I don't know. why has she tried to message me 3 days after we went no contact? I'm trying not to figure it out.
Last updated on:2026-10-09T22:23:11+05:30
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i'd give yourself permission to leave it unread until you feel ready. i used to think i had to respond the second my ex reached out, but i was allowed to take a breath and protect my peace first.
are you secretly hoping the message says, even if you're scared to admit it to yourself
, 6 years of friendship and now even seeing her name pop up must hurt like hell. i remember getting a message from my ex during no contact and staring at it for ages, scared that opening it would either give me hope or break my heart all over again.
delete the numbers