she messaged me !!!
she regretting so much but she also told me that she will not come back again, she is just regreting, she taken 100% responsibility of all the fights happened but , she don't want to come again..
i only replied ok and take care..
one of my friends said she will message, she missing your attention because I was quite for 2 weeks after so much bagging..
after her apology message.. I am missing her too much but can't message because my one of friends told me if I message she will never come.. wait for her to message first..she will come only if you will keep quiet for some days. ðŸ˜
what to do should I follow my friends advice??
Last updated on:2026-10-12T06:46:11+05:30
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what worked for me was muting her everywhere and putting my phone in another room whenever that urge to wait for her name to pop up got too heavy. staying silent just so she comes back puts all your power right back in her hands, but staying silent for YOUR own peace lets you actually breathe again.
she say why she was reaching out to apologize if she already decided she wasn't coming back
that breadcrumb apology after two weeks of silence completely resets your brain back to day one. i remember when my ex messaged me just to say he felt terrible, but had zero intention of getting back together, and it threw me right back into that unbearable waiting game. hanging onto hope while trying to play mind games with a streak of quiet is exhausting
what to do then in this situation!!
she let you know she isn't coming back. It hurts like hell but do not live your life waiting for her return. you need to allow yourself to feel all the pain and hurt and then you need to start focusing on you and your needs. the clock just reset for you emotionally because you spoke again. give yourself time. absolutely no contact and let your heart and head heal. hang out with friends, go to new places, create new memories that don't involve her, it is going to take a lot of time to heal. you will feel ok for a little bit then in excruciating pain but just remember it passes. Healing is not in a straight line. you will always question, you will miss them and still love them. but it will slowly lessen. Good luck.
thanks for this , it will help me a lot