Last December my breakup completely destroyed me. I stopped eating cried constantly and prayed every day that we'd get back together. I genuinely thought he was my only shot at love and that I’d miss him for the rest of my life.
Ten months later I am finally free. He randomly blocked me recently after months of no contact and I was shocked to find I didn't care at all. Instead of grieving the "lover girl" I used to be with him I’ve reconnected with the person I was before him. Being single feels amazing and I no longer let anyone else control my mood. I know now that when I’m ready to date again I’ll do it while putting myself first.
Last updated on:2026-10-13T08:34:11+05:30
Comments (7)
Every relationship is different. Some are over when they’re over and you’re supposed to go get over them. Some get interrupted and you’re meant to get back.
I do understand what you’re saying. For some reason it’s not super painful anymore. And not always the first thing and last thing on my mind. Never again tho lol.
excellent! keep going that way. its never really over. i myself had this night and early morning a heavy trowback to my narc ex. shes still in my mind. but i will fight her till shes noi longer in my mind.
How did you get to this point? My bf and I broke up and I’m seemingly getting worse the past two weeks. Everything you described in regard to the not eating, crying, never dating again etc is how I feel right now.
So happy to hear the random blocking didn’t bother you at all. That’s growth. 🖤
When people block you, consider it the trash taking itself out. That's how I have always looked at it.
Girll !! Thats good 🥹