3 days after we broke up, a girl reached out to me claiming that something happened between them. The girl also told me that they had s-word every month. me and my ex met at December 18 last year and the girl told me something happened to them at December 20. i believe the girl bcs she knows about his friend’s dump acc (his friend is the one who introduced the two of them to each other, accompanied my ex when the the two would meet) what hurts most is the fact that he was the first boy i introduced to my parents, he’s the one who took my vcard ☹️☹️
Last updated on:2025-10-29T10:07:20+05:30
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did he ever give you signs that made you doubt him before this girl reached out? or did it all just come crashing down at once?
i was too blind to even notice the signs, it all came crashing down at once
as messed up as it is, don’t look for more “proof.” i did that once and it only kept reopening the wound. the truth already hurts enough. try to focus on what you do know that he broke the trust, and that’s all you need to walk away for real.
thank you for this advice 💋💋
Girl I understand how you feel ...But I'll suggest you to move on with that situation.. Because a man who doesn't have his own value and randomly had s e x with a girl even though WHILE having a gf who had done these much of the things for him.
Believe me when I say ,,, He is a pure loser who don't know how to live and also a person who not even let other's live.
I understand, the situation is really hurtful..You are really brave that you show up on this app ...And I'm sure you will be fine ...
But remember,,, He is never the one ...
He did all just because he need your body not you !!! So he could never be the one for you dear .
Have faith in God and focus on yourself.
Build a character where your "profession" will speak louder than words.
Lastly, I will recommend you to make new frnds ..no need to share the whole thing at first with them... But yes ,, Be friendly to calm yourself and to be happy!!
And yes againnnnn ,,,,,
REMEMBER :-
HE IS NOT THE ONE YOU DESERVE !
HE IS A LOSER !
still in shock on why he did that, i don’t want to believe that he just wanted me for my body but thank you girl cause i’m starting to believe that now 🥹🥹
my ex did something similar… i found out days after we broke up that he was already with someone else. that betrayal hits different when it’s someone you trusted with that part of you. i remember feeling sick for weeks. you’re not crazy for hurting this bad.
reading the last line makes me wanna cry. he called me crazy and childish when i confronted him ☹️
we have same situation I hope that they will come back to us. lets just pray to God that they are the one
it feels like hell without them
@SweetAir496 yes im still thinking if he thinking of me . cause I reallllllly miss him so so much.