Why did he leave me? jealousy and control ruined us

my boyfriend broke up w me last week, nope none of us cheated or did anything wrong w each other he just said that sometimes i get super jealous and which leads to me being controlling? and he said he just can't handle my behavior anymore...and i instantly started going for therapy so i can improve my behavior he knew that but he said it's too late now😭😭

Last updated on:2026-03-13T18:09:21+05:30

Comments (5)

HollowSteps
HollowSteps a mth ago

hey that part where he said it’s too late… do you feel like he had been holding those feelings in for a long time before the breakup, or did it come out of nowhere for you?

ivyyycoreee
ivyyycoreee a mth ago

he was indeed holding up, waiting for things to improve but he kept talking to random girls which fed my insecurity and i grew controlling more and more and eventually it all ended

rainbow
rainbow a mth ago

i’m really glad you started therapy right away, that takes guts.

LostmySoul
LostmySoul a mth ago

my ex said something really similar to me, that my jealousy made him feel controlled, and by the time i realized it and tried to fix it he had already checked out. that ā€œtoo lateā€ line sticks in your chest for a long time

TutuZip369
TutuZip369 a mth ago

I also started therapy like 2 weeks ago, so I can improve myself for the better just try doing it for yourself, if he thinks is to late is never to late! improve yourself keep doing what you're doing, become you're better version!