62 days of no contact. Feelings are like waves, sometimes they rise and sometimes they fall. But what hurts me the most is why, even after the breakup, I'm still the one who bears the brunt of it all. My heart aches; it's up to me to hold back, to be careful, to suffer. While he's living the high life. I heard from his friends that six days after I left the house where we'd lived together for five years, he already brought a girl home. He's going from party to party, living his best life. And I'm still searching for ways to heal, to process all the emotions so I don't get hurt again, and every time I talk to a man, I feel guilty, while for him, after six days, not even a week, it's already over. It's like the relationship never mattered. I want to live too, I want to get rid of this guilt, this feeling that's still inside me. But it's always, always me who has to bear the brunt of it all.💔
Last updated on:2026-03-30T20:05:26+05:30
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do you feel like the guilt is about him, or about how you see yourself after everything that happened?
about him
i was 2 months no contact too and found out my ex was already bringing people over like nothing happened, it made me feel like i imagined the whole relationship. that guilt when i even thought about someone else… yeah, i know that feeling
And what did you do next?
Thank you so much for your incredibly comforting words.❣️
You know, this is how men usually works. They feel "free" at first and party so they don't have time to think about the pain or the emptiness and after a while, they'll get bored of this life and they'll face the problem and get sad, miss you and probably come back. Since, as woman, we're stonger and face our emotions since the beginning, they'll come back when we're moving on (obviously).
"Men are from Mars and Women are from Vénus" is a book i read that explain how they works btw. Stay strong girl 🥰 You're doing just fine !