we have been together since 4 years and since 4 months I have seen a dramatic change in his behaviour towards me..he always blames me he ignores me and I have tried everything to save the relationship but it just doesn't...he basically admires his friend's relationship this guy has a tendency to just admire people's life he's never satisfied i have always tried to tell him that be satisfied with what you have but nope and this led to our breakup he admires the girl and says hurtful things like i never did any effort for him I never brought flowers for him while I have never recieved one and I have gave him one on his birthday i tell him that rn I'm not working so I can't spend my dad's money and he says that everyone has dad's money like DUDE you are earning but I have never recieved a flower while I'm jobless yet this guy wants flowers (context- it's my final year of college) so my guy can't wait one year he says extremely hurtful things like you have never did anything for me..it's always me who put efforts...LIKE why the hell were you even in a relationship when I never put any effort...since last 4 months this one friend has came into his life and my ex has started to compare me and his gf and I'm just sooo done... IT'S BEEN 4 MONTHS THAT I'M CRYING NON STOP...and for a fact? i told him let's meet tommorow cause I wanted to fix things he never showed up and then at night i was like not talking to him in total he sent me 3 random reels about break-up THIS GUY HAS NO GUTS TO TALK he's sending reels like a child then i said that DO NOT sent me these reels he liked my text and it just made me more frustrated and then I put all my frustration on the text and yk what he said ? he said his friend's girlfriend comes to his home when they have an argument but what an effortless woman you are...you can't...these were his literal words and i was speachless!!!!
Last updated on:2026-03-30T20:29:02+05:30
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you actually feel like he sees you and respects you right now, or does it feel like you’ve been shrinking yourself just to keep him from leaving?
honestly this hit a nerve, i learned the hard way that you can’t prove your worth to someone who’s already decided to undervalue you. i stopped arguing, stopped explaining, and just stepped back, that’s when things got clearer for me.
hi i stayed with someone who kept comparing me to other girls and making me feel like i was never enough, no matter what i did, and i cried for MONTHS thinking if i just tried harder he’d see me… he never did
you will be better without him in your life. I know the sadness of losing him is scary and a strong feeling, but that’s temporary.