It's only day 3 and I feel like i'm already getting over him because I have so much resentment for the way he let things end if he truly did love me in the way he claimed to. Our relationship was unbelievably toxic and the way he reacted and wouldn't take accountability made me feel crazy and stupid for ever liking him in the first place. I definitely did love him but it got to a point, a point where i held so much love but also so many invisible wounds because of how attached I was that the fact he is now placing all of the blame onto me feels like a slap to the face especially after I told him about my past and everything I'd been through.
Last updated on:2026-04-10T12:51:03+05:30
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the resentment is protecting you right now, or does it feel like it’s still tied to wanting him to see what he did?
i’ve been there where love and resentment sit in the same place. my ex twisted everything on me too and i started feeling crazy for things that actually HURT, it messes with your head so bad.
I have recently been thru something similar where all the blame was placed on me and its incredibly difficult to carry that. keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know you're not alone friend ❤️