I just saw an ig story of my ex’s friend. The picture had my ex, his boy friend and one of his girl friends(that I was not comfortable of, when me and my ex were together). He cut her off (a/c to him) and whenever things between me and him got worse that lead to me deciding to breakup, he would go to this (girl) friend of his.. not to vent but to just communicate again.
Now I see them together ..
I just can’t see it. The moment I am out of sight.. (it’s been only 4 days) he goes on a trip with his friends.
Was he lying about not taking to her?
Am I being nosy? 😭 I don’t know . I just wanna cry
Last updated on:2026-04-15T11:09:04+05:30
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do you feel like seeing that is making you question the whole relationship, or is it more about that specific girl he told you not to worry about?
he promised me that he won’t talk to this girl. Then like other promises he broke it. I was kept in the dark.. he gaslighted me at times saying that there’s no girl around even when I could hear her voice on call.
I know for sure .. I have a gut feeling that she is not a good friend. And later when I confronted him about the lies. He put it on me saying - it’s because I didn’t wanna loose you.. and I know if I tell you that I still talk to her, he would be palm twichingly mad.
So yeah. I am also questioning those whole 6yrs of relationship
you know i had to stop checking anything connected to him, stories, friends, all of it. every time i looked, i created a new wound for myself, even when i didn’t have the full truth.
keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know you're not alone friend ❤️
i went through something similar where he said he cut someone off, then the SECOND we broke up they were suddenly around again. it made me question everything, like was i just being managed the whole time