me and this girl were talking kind of dating for about 2–3 years. we had our ups and downs but we always worked through it. a couple months ago she started getting distant really dry and i felt like she was done with me. we never even had a clear label and then she just stopped talking to me for 4–5 days.
during that time i went out with another girl. i felt guilty about it and told her myself but she had already found out.
our whole thing was always confusing. some days she was really sweet other days she’d go cold and barely reply. i’ll admit i wasn’t perfect either but being left on read or ignored for days would get to me i get anxious and it just built up over time.
ever since all that happened i can’t stop thinking about her. i miss her every day. i still see her around sometimes and it just messes with my head. i wish we could be together again even though i know we probably won’t.
it hurts more than i expected even the thought of her being with someone else gets to me.
Last updated on:2026-04-15T19:45:05+05:30
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do you miss her, or do you miss how it felt on the good days when she was all in with you?
i was accepting that the confusion WAS the answer. i kept waiting for consistency that never came, and once i stopped chasing that, it slowly hurt less.
i was stuck in something just like that, hot and cold, never really defined, and it messed with my head more than any actual relationship ever did. the silence, the guessing, it made me anxious all the time