We’ve been living together for 3 years. I told him that I hate it when he starts liking other girls’ photos on social media, but he still does it. I deactivated my social media so I wouldn’t see him doing it. My attitude has been triggered because of him—I’m always mad, yelling, and blaming him. But he tells me that I’m the problem and that he gets hurt when I yell.After 3 years, he told me he was tired. I blamed myself because I thought maybe I was the problem. But his friends told me that he was always chatting with other girls on different social media, even though he kept denying it. He went to the province because he said he needed space. He sent me cold messages, but still gave me hope that he just needed time. After 2 months, he came back, got his things, and left.
Last updated on:2026-04-26T11:11:38+05:30
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when you look back at it now, do you feel like you were asking for basic respect or were you constantly being made to feel like your needs were wrong
hmmmm maybe just asking my worth.
and also asking about a little respect and hope to change.
it hurts to read this, honestly
I don't know maybe he replaced secretly hehe
i lived with someone who made me feel crazy for reacting to things that actually hurt me. he’d do stuff that crossed my boundaries, then turn it around like i was the problem for feeling it
same😪 how are you?
living together and breaking up is so hard. I know it because it's also what happened to me. The difference is that I'm the one who leave because she's been hurting me. And she is also talking to her co-office mate. She is a Coast Guard so maybe the stress and pressured she let it out on me. So I left and also I'm the problem. Went from begging to controlling myself to reach out and to check on her.
not literally the problem, she had this problem with my attitude, but all through out our relationship I'm the calm one
@Rose0899 Me too.I'm the calm one but because of him I changed.