My ex and I still snap each other, I am not entirely sure why right now because we are on nc, but I guess we never really officially said that’s what it was. Anyways we snap each other but it seems like we have both adopted the “ignoring game”. I am wondering when do I stop this? I know that we both still care about each other and that we have unresolved feelings and things to talk about. I am proud to say that I am going to break nc in a week because we have a shared friend group and I think it would be the mature thing to hash out any other feelings that we have had and set some boundaries as to what hanging out in a group setting would look like.
Last updated on:2026-05-04T18:23:03+05:30
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when you say you want to talk, do you feel ready for whatever response you might get from them?
when i was in that spot, i had to either talk properly or stop completely. that middle ground just drained me and nothing ever got clearer.
just sending streaks while pretending we’re both fine… it kept me tied to them way longer than i wanted. it feels small but it keeps the door half open all the time.