i was in a situationship about 4–5 months ago and ever since he’s the only guy i’ve seen real potential with. things were actually good between us but i had stuff going on in my personal life and i let it spill over i pushed him away and i regret that a lot.
i took some time for myself then started dating again a few weeks ago but every date has felt off. i’m not attracted to anyone i get bored easily and i keep comparing them to him without even trying.
i even reached out back in march just a simple “hey how are you” and he never replied. that kinda told me everything but it still hurts because if he felt the same he would’ve answered.
now i feel stuck. being alone makes me overthink and miss him but dating just reminds me that no one feels like him. part of me wants to reach out apologize tell him i miss him just to know for sure. but i’m also scared of being ignored again.
i’ve never had this problem before i usually move on in a month or two. this time feels different and i don’t know how to let go.
Last updated on:2026-05-07T16:56:34+05:30
Comments (4)
He is probably waiting on you to apologize first. Maybe then, he would respond. Because it would be sincere.
it sucks but his silence already gave you an answer, i had to accept that too and stop reopening the wound by reaching out again
hi you actually miss HIM, or the version of him you had before things went wrong?
that one person who just resets your whole “type” and suddenly no one else even comes close. i remember going on dates and thinking “why am i even here” because my brain was still stuck on him