When we eneded i expressed myself and didn't hear out because he had 3 months to reach out and chose to experience life like he wasn't in a relationship. so I blocked him after sending my breakup paragraph i specifically asked that he not justify actions and I was too hurt to care or hear him out.I blocked him immediately at the message went through. He only saw it early January i send it on Christmas last year. I recently discovered that he was in Germany with family and he could have just forgotten like one dies when your on vacation. so should I reach out and hear him out? cause when i had ended things i assumed he had been cheating which contrasts my recent discovery.
Last updated on:2026-05-09T04:37:03+05:30
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if it’s going to keep replaying in your head anyway, i’d rather hear him out once than spend years wondering. i did that with an ex and the silence ended up haunting me more than the actual conversation did.
if he explained everything tomorrow and it truly wasn’t cheating, do you think your trust would actually come back or are you mostly searching for peace and clarity now?
I genuinely do think I'd trust him again because cheating as always seem outside of his character to me.
i’ve been here before, making a decision while hurt and then later finding out there was more to the story. that “wait… what if i got it wrong?” feeling can eat you alive.