Why can't we fix this conversation?

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can we at least try and fix where this conversation has gone. we had something good going. Where you feel nauseous over having to talk to me I feel sick at the thought of this sitting unresolved. please at least try to see the good in me and where I’m coming from. I know you’re heavy in a place of hurt and a place of seeing me as the one who hurt you-/ because I did. But I’m not going to be like the people in the past who let that hurt sit in you. Who let that hurt go and didn’t care what they did with it. I know you said you can’t heal with me and I’m keeping that in mind, I’m aware of what you said. I don’t know how viable that’s going to be or if you’ve been able to heal at all even though I’ve left you alone. I just want things to be okay and yes before you say it I am not owed that. I said what I wanted to in discord too, and that went read. I want your feelings on everything and anything and I’ll be holding off on saying anything until then. I deserve at least that respect.

Last updated on:2026-05-18T19:35:38+05:30

Comments (6)

little7bean
little7bean 6 days ago

the line where they said they can’t heal with you matters. i know you want to fix it and explain yourself, but sometimes giving people space is the only loving thing left to do, even when it feels awful.

infinitejax
infinitejax 6 days ago

yeah.

8BB50
8BB50 7 days ago

do you think you’re waiting for accountability from them, or are you hoping one honest conversation could still save the relationship?

infinitejax
infinitejax 6 days ago

the latter. just hoping one good convo could fix everything I guess lol

grassgrop
grassgrop 7 days ago

i’ve been on both sides of this kind of conversation and gah, the unresolved part can eat you alive. i remember begging someone to just TALK to me because silence felt crueler than the breakup itself.

infinitejax
infinitejax 7 days ago

that’s where I am. I’m stuck. he won’t talk to me, and I’m trying.